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The Dangerous Addiction You Never Knew You Had. Here's How Kicking the Habit Will Set You Free!

The Dangerous Addiction You Never Knew You Had. Here's How Kicking the Habit Will Set You Free!

“Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.” 
-Forrest Gump

Famously and with surprising depth, Forrest Gump’s quote explains that life truly is a mystery. With each new decision, thought or action, we don’t know what we’re going to experience until we sink our teeth into it. But we can equip ourselves with tools to learn how to navigate muddy waters.

We all experience times in our life of trials and tribulations. Difficulty and joy. Heartache and pleasure. And it’s during colorful emotions and confusing times that our hearts will experience the feeling of contraction.

How to Awaken Your Destiny & Live the Spectacular Life You Were Born For

How to Awaken Your Destiny & Live the Spectacular Life You Were Born For

Life is cyclical. We all experience ups, downs and everything in between. How we respond to difficult times develops our character, which is what molds us further into who we become.

But what happens if we are terrified to make decisions?

Or if we allow others to make decisions for us?

Victim, Rescuer, Persecutor - How to Escape the Drama Triangle

Victim, Rescuer, Persecutor - How to Escape the Drama Triangle

We all want what’s best for our loved ones. Mothers want to protect their children, spouses want to help their partners, siblings look out for one another and even good friends have your back. But sometimes this line can be crossed or become blurry. Things can occur where we find ourselves in situations where we need to come to the rescue of others.

The question is when is this okay, when do we cross the line to becoming an enabler and how do we know when to say enough is enough - to finally save ourselves, and the other from this trap.

How To Embrace Change By Reframing How You View It

How To Embrace Change By Reframing How You View It

“Remember that the only constant in life is change” – Buddha.

It seems today everyone is telling us to embrace change and that it’ll be the best thing that ever happened to us. That the most incredible opportunities come about from hardship, in the wake of change.

And that we need to get comfortable with being uncomfortable to really evolve. 

The Golden Bubble: The Secret to Stop Absorbing Other People's Energy

The Golden Bubble: The Secret to Stop Absorbing Other People's Energy

The other day, I was at a family gathering and I noticed myself starting to get very stressed out. I needed air. When I removed myself from the situation, my cousin approached me and asked what I was so anxious and upset about. I felt the room spinning and my heart racing, but when I opened my mouth to answer, nothing came out. I didn’t have



Many of us are led by ego, the social mask which we wear for the world, but our soul forever whispers, hoping we’ll listen and go within. While we may think the ego protects us, it merely acts as a barrier, getting in the way of our personal truth. Our biggest barrier to success in life is the ego, created based on the constructs of our upbringing, the society we were raised…



My name is Baljit, and I am a recovering people pleaser.

On the outside I looked like so many others, simply helping out the ones I love. This would be a terrible thing to say no to, wouldn’t it?

It took me way too long to…



Walking through a beaded curtain, you enter into a sacred space, fully equipped with humming and chanting. As the candles flicker, your eye catches the plethora of crystals that surround you, the incense ignites your senses. You join me in a cozy, dimly-lit room, filled with colorful drapery…



The start to every new year allows deep reflection and letting our old habits drop away like last year’s bad fashion choices.

If you’ve been looking for a sign to uplevel your energy in business and the bedroom – this is it.

I know where you’re at, because I was once there too.

Things look like they’re going well on the outside. Business is swimming along, friendships are blossoming, and the bedroom acts are satisfactory.

But, being okay with how things are is so 2017. This is a new year, so let’s create some new choices. Step into your power, grab what you’re truly after and embody the phrase “she means business” in all areas of your life.

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How Your Value Can Sabotage Your Life

“If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone, you have already forgotten your value.”

This quote perfectly describes the theme that I have been witnessing over the last few weeks with my clients.  It was an old pattern of consistently needing to seek approval externally because of their lack of self worth.

This reminded me of how I used to be a people pleaser over giving my time, my energy, my power to my family, friendships, intimate relationships, and even my old workplace.

I had this misconception that if I rescue everyone by being a people pleaser I would be worthy and valued as a super awesome person.  Instead it was the complete opposite.  I felt drained, resentful, and felt like shit.

Not only did this lead to depression experiencing severe panic attacks on a frequent basis, I was at a point where I wasn’t too sure if I wanted to be on this planet.  

I had created a disconnect within myself by seeking approval from others.

I still remember that day back in 2005, I was sitting on my apartment balcony in Toronto and had my first conscious conversation with Source.  In deep surrender I said “Okay God...WTF! Tell me what to do.  Do I stay or do I leave?  If I am to stay please show me the way. I surrender”.  

This was me really saying “Am I valuable and worthy enough to be here on this planet? If so, show me the way.”

It was in the same week where the power of surrender, and making a request to the Universe that I received an email out of nowhere about the Akashic Records.   

Ask and you shall receive!

Intrigued and having no idea what the Akashic Records was, I nervously registered into having a reading, and the rest was history.  My Soul knew that this was a game changer for me.

Within 6 months of receiving readings and then learning the Akashic Records all in half a year all my panic attacks, depression went away by healing the root causes of it.  

I learned how I gave my power away to everyone based on the many programming past, present and parallel that interfered with my daily functions.  

As I chose to claim my power back I was finally able to see myself as a conduit of light, I (AND YOU) are fully worthy and valuable.  

You came here to learn and share your gifts to awaken the consciousness of the planet.  That is to LIVE for!

It is my passion and joy to teach the Akashic Records because to assist one in embodying their truth within brings the greatest transformations and shifts.

The more you search outside of yourself the more you will disconnect.

The more you search within yourself the more you will connect.

And so it is.  

Are you ready to tap into the truth of all that you are, and learn how to access the most powerful tool to support your Soul's existence?

Join me this September 24th & 25th for the Akashic Records Level 1 Certification, and connect to the power that is already within you!



Forgive Yourself...

The more you deflect awareness to yourself, the more your issues will repeat itself.  

As mercury moves into retrograde towards the end of this month past relationship patterns are resurfacing as an opportunity to clear deep karma and self sabotage by reclaiming self worth and setting clear healthy boundaries.

Most importantly my guides have been sharing the message to be very gentle and aware when experiencing intense emotions such as frustration, sadness, resentment etc.  My initial thoughts were “oh yay...crap”, however they reassured me that this is an initiation into activating the codes of alignment that have been lying dormant within.

These codes of alignment are keys to unlocking your greatest potential.  By awakening these codes you are able to access deeper information connected to your intuitive gifts. 

There will be less “looking out there” for answers and a sense of knowingness of your next action steps moving forward.  This is the next level of empowerment available to you creating rapid alignment to your soul’s mission. 

If you find yourself having thoughts such as...
“I thought I have already dealt with that!”
“Why does this keep happening?”

Circling in frustration like a hamster on a wheel, again be gentle, and take this as a positive gesture than a negative to clear the deepest root cause to your pain and suffering that is preventing you from accessing your gifts.

This is part of the ascension process as pockets of dense energy that are holding trauma locks in your cellular memory are being released.  In raising your vibration these trauma locks will reveal itself, so it is important to remain with a state of truth and awareness, being in observation instead of reaction.

Think of it like being a Jedi, when you experience a reoccurring pattern ask your higher self to go deeper in how to remain in a state of truth instead of reaction. 

There is a difference in embracing your truth than reacting to it.  Reaction comes from resistance of letting go of the old constructs that deflect your truth.  


Forgiveness of Self

The parts where you thought you have forgiven others for cannot be fully integrated till you have truly forgiven yourself.  Forgiveness of self allows you to surrender to your truth, and release the deep karma and self sabotaging energies.

You may carry guilt, shame, betrayal that may not be easy to look at.  It is time to give yourself permission to transmute your burdens and live your soul’s mission.

When choosing to surrender to your truth, reaction transform into compassion.  The state of compassion is where miracles happen.



How Death Became My Awakening

Have you ever heard the saying when there is death, there is life?

It has been seven months since a dear friend and soul brother passed away.  He was a best friend to many who brought so much pizzaz into peoples lives with his big muscular tattooed body, bleached split horned goatee, piercings, shiny bald head, and a big smile.  Although his looks may have been deceiving, he was a teddy bear that gave the longest care bear hugs till the guarded walls would disintegrate into eternity.

What was difficult for me to digest was that my friend chose to leave this physical plane by taking his own life.  It was a wake up call of how powerful our thoughts can be with the free will we have to take an empowered or disempowered path.

His death activated me so deeply where I was reflected back of times from early adulthood to a young teenager having those thoughts of not wanting to be here on this planet.  I felt like I didn’t belong like a lonely star being alien, confused, and misunderstood, when really I didn’t know myself.

I didn’t know what my Soul’s Purpose was, and parts of me were already checking out.  My Soul wanted to know the Truth of who I really am.

I then chose to look at those past fragments of the early adulthood to the young teenager self where those thoughts were hidden and stagnant within my present self.  I chose to wake those fragments up by speaking to all parts that have declared not to be here, to BE Here.  I shared to those parts our Soul’s Purpose so that we can be congruent with the present self to live an empowered path.

We are multidimensional beings.  That means our past self and future self exist in the now, and we have access to all dimensions of ourselves to bring healing on all levels.

When we experience death, whether it is a physical death, a break up, leaving a career or location, or even taking a different path, there is an illusion of separation as old energies including karma are being released.  This triggers a response in your cellular memory mostly from your past self of any belief systems that lay dormant giving it an opportunity to be released upon your free will if you so choose.

The more suffering we experience the more attached we are to our belief systems as it is common to fear the unknown.

My friend's passing reminded me about my Soul’s Purpose, and to release the parts that were incongruent to it.  That means no more settling, no more bull***t, speak my truth more (honey badger style if need be), and to be a stand for my truth.

The three dimensional reality is precious and there is purpose in us all.  Choose your path wisely and leave your legacy in this world. 




My Bird Shit Blessing

You can imagine what I will be talking about today...that is right, I got shat on by a bird!

The other day I had an amazing morning co-facilitating a networking event, and after a very important meeting planning my next endeavors for Lotus Destiny I thought to myself walking home “Let’s take this path!”.

Feeling so giddy inside I turned the corner to take the path that was chosen, and it was like a movie in slow motion.  I saw a bunch people look up at the sky thinking they were just looking at a cool building, but no it was a BIG seagull.

Next thing I knew I got brutally soiled.  Thankfully, two women pulled me aside like Angels and immediately took out their wet-wipes to help me wipe off the wonderful bird shit from my face, my chest, the side and front of my shirt, my pants, and my legs!

The funny thing was the two women were excited for me saying that this was a big blessing.  I laughed, yet something deep inside switched as we continued to converse with each other.

It was in that moment my feelings of being completely embarrassed, and annoyed shifted into seeing this as a blessing.   It was all about perspective in how I was choosing to experience this incident, even if it looked a little shitty (literally).

Have you ever had anything happen to you where it totally threw your day off, or felt taken off your path?

Consider that this was part of your path the entire time, and by free will your soul chose to experience certain circumstances to receive the deepest wisdom and healing for your soul's growth.

By being a victim to your circumstances you limit your ability to embrace the wisdom required to raise your vibration and step into empowerment.  When you choose to be empowered, you free yourself from suffering, and experience the truth.

Train yourself to find the blessing in everything...



Are you willing to take the first step?

It has been over a week where I received an opportunity to house and dog sit for my cousin in LA.

When I first arrived I had everything planned to explore the city and meet friends.  My Soul on the other hand had a different plan.  As the week went by I was feeling a deep sense of sadness and grief wanting to cocoon myself, and stay inside.  I realized that I had some letting go to do, but could not pin point exactly what that was.

Being here in LA has forced me to sit with stepping outside of my comfort zone, by exactly doing that in stepping outside of Vancouver. I have created a safe haven for myself nested close to the water in my apartment, feeling cozy in my business in Vancouver.  My Soul, however, has been asking for more so I could be of higher service and more aligned to my purpose.

By accessing my Akashic Records I saw how I have keeping myself in a “safe” mold instead of expanding.  The illusion I was holding was if I stepped outside of this mold I would experience all kinds of rejection.  So instead of choosing to step out of my comfort zone to expand, I was choosing to contract.  Can you relate?

What areas in your life are you choosing to stay in your comfort zone when you know your soul is urging to expand (e.g. intimate relationship, location, business)?

When you choose to acknowledge the truth transformation happens.  It is the illusions that keep you trapped in creating unhealthy situations, and prevents you from truly living your purpose.

All it takes is one step in making an empowered choice in consciously creating what you are meant to be doing on this planet.

Are you ready to take that first step?

If so I invite you to learn how to access your very own Akashic Records in receiving direct guidance and support on your journey.  The Akashic Records is one of the deepest healing tools that can create rapid shifts and I'm excited to share this you.  Join me on June 24th and 25th for the online Akashic Records Level 1 certification training.  

Much love,



Reclaiming Your Soul Fragments

Do you ever feel fragmented where your soul feels scattered in different places? 

Feeling fragmented is a common symptom of being disconnected from your true self that can cause overwhelm, confusion, and stagnation in your energy field.

Why might this be happening?

Being in this three dimensional reality can be extremely overwhelming that sometimes the “safest” way to protect yourself is through distraction, avoidance, dissociation, and leaving your body which keeps you away from living your soul’s purpose.

When you experience trauma your soul will create a misconception or a story causing an interference pattern in your energy field.  This can create a feeling of being fragmented because your soul has decided that it is not safe to fully be in your body, or fully integrate your gifts (because you carry a misconception that you will punished, persecuted etc).

By bringing awareness to your misconception or story, the interference pattern is released from your energy field and you realign back to your Universal Truth.  Your Universal Truth is the truth of all that is beyond the human truth.  It is the very thing that allows you to live your soul’s purpose, and express your divine gifts and talents.

Are you ready to clear feeling fragmented and ground back into your body so you can experience living your soul’s purpose?


Here is a Star Activation healing you can receive now to integrate and call back your soul fragments:

  1. Sit up straight and make sure you are in an uninterrupted space
  2. Focus on the Star Activation Blueprint image below and ask to receive energies of the highest light and order by imagining your soul fragments coming back to you from all spaces, times and dimensions.  There is not right or wrong, so allow your intuition to lead with how you choose to receive the energies.  You can even close your eyes if it helps, and call in all of your guides connecting to your higher self.  Take note if you see images or experience discomfort in your body as they are keys for you to look deeper into with where you may have misplaced your soul fragments.  Call all of your energy back till you feel complete.
  3. Notice how you feel, and journal any shifts in the next few days.

Ready to go reclaim back your personal power, and finally receive clarity on what your soul has been longing for?

To support you in your Soul's calling, receive your own personal Star Activation Soul Blueprint in reawakening who you really are.  Click on the button below for more info!




Do you have healthy boundaries?









Do you have healthy boundaries?

As you align to your soul’s purpose you may notice your relationships changing whether it is with an intimate partner, friends, business, or work.  Why is this?  It is because any old programming that is in the way of you aligning to your purpose are being released.  This also means old relationship patterns and dynamics can no longer play out as it doesn’t serve the new vibration that you are stepping into.

How often do you give yourself permission to step into this new vibration trusting and knowing that you are supported with the respect that you deserve?

Do you fear that by stepping up into a new vibration you will not receive support, receive a better relationship, or career?  If so then chances are you have unhealthy boundaries.  Don’t get confused though with having barriers.

Barriers are when you are “trying” to protect yourself to keep you safe.  This can also look like a form of control where you keep controlling your outcomes, situations, and relationships.

When you have barriers you block opportunities because there is a false belief system that is keeping you from your truth.  For example, if you believe that you are constantly inviting dark entities in your energy field and you have to shield yourself two thousand times a day, you are creating a barrier by carrying this false belief system.

If you believe that the “issue” or block is “out there” you are creating a barrier, when really it is inside of you.  By acknowledging the block is within there is an opportunity to step into your truth and release the old programming.

Healthy boundaries is when you embody your universal truth and choose to respect and honour that truth.  By embodying the universal truth you create freedom within, because you are choosing to be empowered and giving others the gift to do the same :)

Are you ready to create healthy boundaries for yourself and release your barriers?  Join me this weekend on March 19th & 20th for Akashic Records Level 1 Certification where you get to learn how to access your own Akashic Records and receive support in clearing your blocks.



Overnight Success Blog Tour

I wanted to share with you authentically about my journey of Lotus Destiny.  This story is part of a movement - the Busting The Overnight Success Myth: Community Blog Tour, where 21 ladies who have made their dream business a reality (in a variety of different niches) share what it really took for us to make this happen including the not so pretty stuff.

When Allison Braun (The Business Joyologist) shared her vision for this blog tour with me, I knew I wanted to be a part of it because I feel it is my mission to align people to their soul’s purpose so they can experience a vibration of success.  To me success isn’t just having everything that looks good on paper, it’s a lot more than that. If you have the material aspects of success (your ideal car, money, the perfect man, etc.) but inside you are not truly in love with yourself it doesn’t matter how much you do or how much money you make you won’t feel truly satisfied. What I want to share with you are the shadow sides of myself that you may relate to in this journey.

Your soul has a purpose in this life.  While running a business you are always aligning yourself to your soul’s purpose which naturally causes you to grow.  With growth can come some discomforts whether its directly in your business or relationships.  Whatever happens in your relationships also relates to your business.  I remember my former mentor Jennifer Longmore telling me “If you want to learn more about yourself, start your own business.”  You are your own boss in your business so you can either hide, or face the truth about yourself.  So here is my story. It's raw, real and includes things I've never shared before! 

I was an undercover jedi lightworker in the corporate industry.  In 2009 I had reached 7 years working at an architect firm as an architectural technologist.  Part-time I was teaching and consulting with clients using the Akashic Records, Star Activation system, Reiki, and other energy modalities.  I kept it very separate from my identity working in architecture.  I thought if I had fully revealed myself to others I would be considered completely “woo woo” when my deepest prayer was to share that we all have a natural ability to tap into our intuition and experience the power of our soul. 

I have to admit though other people thought I was successful, I was feeling unsatisfied in my life.  My external reality looked good, but my internal reality was not so healthy.  Even though I received a sweet paycheck I was seeking for a deeper meaning to life and working a 9-5 job was not the answer to my prayers.

As I entered into a leadership program I noticed that I was surrounded by amazing entrepreneurs and thought to myself “this is my tribe.”  I knew that this was a sign for me to leave my architectural job and allow my intuitive healing business to grow by stepping into my leadership role.  I am not going to lie, I was totally scared to leave my comfort zone and my lovely paycheck, but the thought of doing nothing was scarier.

When you take a big leap of faith the universe catches you with a big net.  I took a deep breathe and decided to go for it.  I left working at the architectural firm and was set free to fully embark in my business as an intuitive soul coach.  No sooner did I hire my former mentor full time to show me the loops in running a conscious business.  What was really special is that my mentor really got me and understood my gifts and inspired me to implement them and create my ideal services and programs.

It was not easy at first as I had to learn how to run a conscious business and support myself financially.  My first year I barely made anything, but something inside me knew to keep going as I was feeling much more happier with myself and growing. This time my internal reality was content and at peace, however my external reality was in lack.  Back to the drawing board!

By 2010 I rebranded my business and had the prettiest website!  I had shifted my business to focus on Goddess Empowerment for women with new Goddess coaching programs.  This time my internal reality was matching my external reality.  I could feel the vibration of success with many new long term clients and started a relationship with a man that felt in alignment to my purpose.   Six months going in to my personal relationship with my partner I started to give my power away tremendously and it was affecting my business.  The relationship was toxic and the energy was bleeding through into my business.

Here I was running Goddess Empowerment programs where I attracted a fair amount of clients, but behind closed doors I felt like I had not mastered being in my own Goddess power.  I was suffering in my intimate relationship where I had gained 25 pounds and was so angry at myself for not setting healthy boundaries.  I felt like I had lost my identity, like I had forgotten who I truly was.

After ending this relationship in 2011 I was in a raw state where I started to compare myself to other entrepreneurs.  I was very hard on myself and realized that I needed to reach into my own tool kit to claim back my Goddess power.  Self-compassion was a huge key in re-establishing love and honour for myself again. I hired a personal trainer and transformed my body which immediately reflected in my business.  By claiming back my Goddess power Lotus Destiny came back alive again.

In this next phase from 2011 to 2013 I was introduced to Kate Muker of The Conscious Divas and started co-hosting a networking gathering with April Tioseco Bellia of Granola Girl called Serendipity Tea Party.  All of a sudden I was surrounded by like minded women entrepreneurs who wanted to connect and create deeper conscious relationships.  Co-hosting the Serendipity Tea Parties and attending Diva Date Nights I felt myself surrender more into my purpose.  By connecting with other women I realized that we are all on the same path to self-realization as business owners.  It was so refreshing to know that we could all be authentic.  Through vulnerability came the courage and strength to be supported for my creative gifts.  I got to witness many women step into their purpose fully and it was so rewarding.  I also recognized that what makes me happy is connecting women together.  Again I could feel this vibration of success.

When I talk about the vibration of success it is where your heart chooses to remain open to trust, receive and the universe responds back.  Being around amazing, like-minded women created trust within myself and that self-confidence opened the door for me to receive more ideal clients.  I felt seen, understood and safe to really blossom as a soul.  It is important to celebrate your uniqueness by connecting with those that support your soul’s purpose.

As I awakened more to myself I realized it was part of my mission to help others awaken to themselves.  I started to experience a oneness with those that I was of service to and now I have come to believe I am co-creating a reality with them, celebrating our growth together.

I now find it easy to maintain a state of grace and gratitude, embracing challenges that arise and opportunities to love my shadow instead of resisting it.  I have also felt judgment for others fall away as I can embrace their shadow too.  I have come to realize that loving the dark is what transforms it.  Nothing new here, all the great mystics spoke of this, but when its your experience it becomes real. 

If you've ever felt alone on your journey or like you weren't as far as you "should" be, I invite you to check out more of these real-life stories by going here to join the Busting The Overnight Success Myth: Community Blog Tour.  I know sensuous Devi Ward shared her story yesterday along with other amazing ladies that started July 2nd.

With deepest love,

Baljit Rayat